Making Holiday Traditions

It is that time of year, stores are bustling with shoppersRemember to give of yourself.  My grown children still
and decorations are all around.  There is ancomment about helping less fortunate kids at
excitement in the air that you can almost feel. Christmas time. Every year no matter how cash
Everything seems magical, and you can bring thatstrapped we were, we always took them to the store
magical feeling into your own home and share it withand had them pick out some toys to donate to Toys
your family. I am talking about family holiday traditions,to Tots.  They would pick out something they would
certain rituals and events that you do every year. really like then give it away.  Even when they were
These are the things that bring the magic andvery young they understood why we were giving and
excitement into your home.  they enjoyed it.
Holiday traditions don't need to be expensive orYou can make cookies and take them to a lonely
elaborate.  Anything that brings family and friendsneighbor, or visit a retirement home.  Doing activities
together and spreads joy and laughter is perfect!  like this teach children how to think of others and to
You can get together with friends and go ice skatingprovide service.  This is probably one of the most
or bowling – of course this is something you can doimportant gifts you can give your kids – the gift of
almost anytime. But you can add a little somethingkindness.
extra to make this time special, a special dessert or aInvite your neighbors over for a casual holiday party. 
small gift.  Plan it as an ‘after decorating party' andHave everyone bring a small treat and just enjoy one
do it each year to give everyone something to lookanother's company.  In our busy world we don't
forward to.spend as much time getting to know our neighbors as
Visit a holiday light display.  If you live in a metro areawe used to.  If it is cold, serve warm bread or
or where there are commuter trains available, ride thepastries with cozy hot chocolate.  You will have
train with your family to see the lights.  It will bewarm hearts and friends in no time.
magical for little children – almost like riding the PolarTake the time to make memories and traditions this
Express!  Many communities have concerts,holiday season. Gifts are soon forgotten, but the good
pageants and other activities during the holidaytimes you spend in the company of family and friends
season.  Even department store window displayswill linger forever.
bring joy and excitement to kids.